1 Thessalonians 5:11

Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.

Building each other up is very important to relationships. But is it what you are doing? We tend to tear each other down way to much. But what we don't realize at the moment is that it's probably not that important, and that you are not tearing down the person only at the moment, but your'e also tearing down relation ship that person. Eventually you're going to hate each other. So, Is it really worth that?